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If he doesn't like them and refuses to hang out with them, leave immediately.
I’m sure I’m reading into this too much – but the sheer number of times I’ve been told this, from people of all ages, genders, and nationalities has started to hit a nerve. And then I stop listening when they add stuff on the end.” I love his simple outlook on life. Your intentions might pure(ish), but the execution is a bit lacking. There is absolutely no reason to add the qualifier “you know, for an Asian guy.” [Edit: To the surprising number of people who have messaged me furious with my “cultural appropriation” because of this photo – it was an engagement photo my Japanese husband and I took, in a rural prefecture of Japan, at the urging of his very traditional parents who speak absolutely no English.
I asked my husband if this bothers him (since about half the time, Ryosuke is standing right next to me when he/I get that backhanded compliment). It’s a refreshing comparison to my own overly-analytic, anxious outlook on life. I think one of the most uncomfortable instances I’ve had in the last month was when one of my Japanese (female) friends commented “For a Japanese man, Ryosuke is attractive. They display this photo inside their house, along with similar engagement photos of my husband’s older (married) brother and sister (and their respective, Japanese spouses).
Or, more specifically, why the need to add a qualifier? I don’t understand why being Asian counts as a strike against him. On anyone else (and by anyone else, I mean on another white person like me, because I guess that’s what the standard is…?
Or despite the unfortunate and unavoidable fact that he was born Asian, he still manages to be attractive. Before you tell your friend “Your boyfriend/girlfriend/partner is hot/cute, for a [insert ethnicity],” stop for a second and consider the fact that the phrase your about to utter is actually kinda racist.If you’ve found someone who meets your desires, then warm their heart with messages, virtual gifts or start chatting right away.The dating experience is also fully customizable with token-based perks and gold membership.Our is an online dating site aimed at mature and senior singles.If you are over 50 and looking for a long-term relationship, marriage, companionship or simply a pen pal, Our Time will help you find that special someone.