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For those convinced that they'll find the perfect hookup online however, here's where I'd suggest starting.
When I asked a male friend of mine if they thought Craigslist deserved top ranking on my list of places to find a sexual encounter online, they loudly said, "Are you kidding?! Yea, it works." Almost everyone I've spoken to who has used CL to hookup has had success; those that failed to find what they sought were either rude, exceptionally picky, or ignored my tips below.: Focus on replying to ads rather than posting them, make sure you have a fantastic, recent and clear picture of your face (keep the junk pictures to yourself for now), and share this picture along with a personalized first reply - most gals can spot a copied and pasted response a mile away.
Share yourself genuinely, be clear and specific about who you are and what you're after, and make sure you use that flag button at the bottom of each message as often as it's needed.
Lavalife's Intimate Encounters section has been a longtime favorite of mine.
I have heard of others finding success at places like Adult Friend Finder, Match.com, or any number of adult dating sites though, so you're more than welcome to try them out as well - and then let us know in the comments what worked for you.
For a geek like me, this is fantastic, and for anyone preferring more casual interactions, the site is a hotbed for fun, creative, quirky folks that are okay with hooking up, polyamory, and all sorts of experimentation.
Oh, and if you're outside of what the ad wants?
Skip it.: Focus on posting an ad instead of replying to them, and know that there's a good chance it'll get flagged within 24 hours. There are a great number of folks on CL who are bitter, angry and/or frustrated with their lack of hooking up, and they'll automatically assume anyone who seems 'normal' is a prostitute.
Then, move on to the next ad, and do the same thing.
CL is a numbers game, and you'll have to respectfully answer as many ads as you can, showing exactly how you fit the criteria specified.